On August 12-16, I am going to Phoenix to visit my college friend Brian for his 40th birthday. He and his wife Nina are very active hikers and outdoor enthusiasts, so I am sure I will get in some good physical activity, but I will do much manual work too. Lots of push-ups and yoga. But this is a great example of what I am talking about. In 31 days, you can't expect to not be faced with challenges. You might have a work party, a wedding or some other event where you will be tempted to no end with delicious little foods and free flowing drinks. That's OK. Take part. Enjoy life. Just be smart about it and make up for it later. Just never forget your goal and always work toward it. A bunch of little choices add up.
I am looking at this challenge as a lifestyle change and not a "quick fix" so I have to tackle adversity as it comes up. I love food. I am a "foodie" I thoroughly enjoy trying new food and going out to eat with friends and family. I just need to keep going in the right direction and eventually with enough hard work, I will have muscles again and lose some weight! At first I was so gung ho. I wanted to lose 30lbs and get down to 207. If that happens, great. I am sure I will look great, but if not I will be happy to get down to a weight I feel comfortable maintaining. Maybe 215 is a good goal? Ultimately I am just going to keep at it until I feel good in my own skin and with my shirt off! So my short term goal is to drop 5-7 lbs before heading to Arizona. It is August and it will be HOT in AZ! I will be doing a lot of swimming and want to trim down a little before I go. I am starting day 3. I am feeling good and happy and excited about this journey. I have spent far too much of my summer eating and drinking whatever I want. In fact I have been doing that now for about 10 years. In my mind, I thought I was 20 again. Nope! Not the same metabolism or activity level, but I am working on changing that. And working hard on changing my relationship with food.
I think it is important to realize that it is a relationship. Food is part of your life every single day and will be forever. You are married. You and food are besties. Now you just need to respect the relationship and what it can do for you. I am embarking on a journey and I hope that by reading my struggles it will help you with yours. I think everyone's body is different and what you will need to eat and not eat will depend on your goals, but take it slow. It takes time to retrain your habits. I am starting off with this diet (sort of) https://caloriebee.com/diets/lose-10-pounds-in-a-week-diet-plan
I don't recommend trying to lose 10 pounds in a week. It seems rather unhealthy. What I am doing is taking some helpful advice from the above article. On Monday I ate all fruit. Yesterday it was all vegetables with a small portion of chicken breast. Today I am eating a mix of apples and salad with a bit of chicken. For me, its about trying to re-calibrate my body and its needs. I love sweets. I often eat sugary snacks and treats. I am trying to eliminate sugars and get my body used to long term sustained energy. I am also drinking lots of water and trying to light the metabolism fire. I wish you success in your journey. Keep up the good work and remember to read the daily goals and check the "Stay motivated" Instagram feed for inspiration.